Well there is girl who works the information desk at my college, my sister had a class with her so she introduced me to her 2 weeks ago and then we got to talking that following monday, I would pass by the desk almost every day so i would talk to her for about 30min to an hour each day. So this week was the week i talked to her almost everyday except thursday i was too busy. On Wednesday when i went past the desk going to deliver a test because i also work at our college she saw my name tag a made for myself that said the magnanimous, she asked about it and we talked about it for a bit and then i told her i would make her a cool title to put on her badge. She also asked me that day if i make alot of Mediterranean food because im Lebanese. I said yeah and she was like i love hummus i make it all the time its soo good! I told her i would make her my family's recipe, but i would want her to bring her hummus so i could try it. So yesterday i brought her the hummus which was beautifully decorated and her name tag where she put it on in front of me. She was soo happy and kept on thanking me and told me it was soo good. I really like her and it seems like she is happy when i talk to her, but i dont want to rush her or anything. I wont see her for a week because she is leaving to go home but i was thinking when she came back to ask her out. Is that too forward? or should i ask her first to get coffee from the starbucks inside our school when she has a break and then ask her out after that to a real date? i dont want to ruin anything please help!Girls: How long until i can ask this girl out?
I think you should take small steps and ask her out for coffee first and then if it goes well then ask her out on a real date!
I would invite her befor she leaves and ask her to sleep over so you can talk.tell her befor some reason you feel a strong attraction for her.this way you will find out if you have a chance.Girls: How long until i can ask this girl out?
defiantly ask her out to coffee first then if things go well after that then see if yall can date. you dont want to be to forward but you want to be confident enought to show her you are intrested in her
Whenever you are ready!Girls: How long until i can ask this girl out?
this sounds lovely..
i think you should ask her out for a coffee just to speak properly rather than over a desk...
plus maybe this will let you find out a little more about her such as if theres anyone back home?
it wont ruin anything it sounds like this girl likes you otherwise she wouldnt spend hours speaking to you :) good luck
First, does she like you? think about it. wouldn't it be awkward if she doesn't and only accepted so she won't be alone or because she felt sorry for you? I say confess to her and ask her if she likes you. If she doesn't, move on! or if you insist, try to win her over. If she does like you, i say you spend the first month getting closer to her then finally ask her out. Important tip, DON'T FORGET ABOUT HER BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!
P.S. coffee is a good choice, simple and pretty meaningful for a first-time date
Women live on one schedule, its called a menstrual cycle (sorry, I'm slightly crude.) The rest of their life is just made up of how their feeling, or what they want, who they like, what opportunities present themselves. If your at the point where you know each others names and can have an interesting conversation then your at the point where you can ask her out. There really is no "too soon," but there definitely is a "too late."
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